I have posted in the past the stories of a couple of former members that truly get Christlike compassion, and because they are so few and far between, it bears mentioning that one more is added to that list. Our bishop came over last week (not unannounced, he asked to come over) to fulfill his assignment relating to Emily's request to be removed from the church. But he never came with the checkmark mentality. He even said that he didn't consider the visit a 'Hail Mary' last effort to get us back. He understood our reasons for leaving, and was willing to carve out a place in his own belief in Mormonism that allows for the possibility of happiness and fulfillment outside of the church. Even in the next life, he reaffirmed his belief that many church members will be surprised by the mercy that God affords to non-Mormons He admitted that Emily has never looked happier. He saw her ankle tattoo, and had no judgement in his response. He understood why we would want to remove our boys from the BSA ward troop.
Kent Vaughn is a very good man.
JB